Wednesday, June 30, 2010

The Waters Of War, and Things That Make Us Whole Again

Poet Mary Oliver with her Dog Percy
My tousled life. A little bit of this, a smattering of that.
Today, Restrepo.
Tomorrow, hot sweaty weather in Savannah. I pack my bags hoping not to take too much. The weather in Georgia is like stepping into a permanent sauna. Last year, I wished for a knife so I could cut a square into the air for a gulp of coolness.
"Surely there's a trade wind in the afternoon," I said, to a local I'd met.
"Surely not," she said, laughing as she walked away.
Stop griping you say.
Okay, I will.
This just in from a famous fashion designer: "Do you want to cover British Virgin Islands Fashion Week?"
It doesn't take me long to think about this.
Do I want to make the jump from war back into fashion?
Yes. Yes I do. I love that scene. Besides, it's so far away from this:
"KABUL, Afghanistan – Militants set off a car bomb and stormed the entrance to a major NATO air base in eastern Afghanistan on Wednesday, authorities said. Eight insurgents died in the failed assault."
When War isn't the uninvited guest on my sofa, War is the unwanted passenger sitting with me on a small boat.
Even when I am watching models on a runway, or talking the creative process, War is not far away.
What I have learned is the key to coexistence with War is to remember all the bits and pieces that make us whole. It's the only way we can help others, too.
Laying alongside the books of War is a well thumbed book by the poet Mary Oliver. My method of reading about War is one most would call mad. War, Jane Austen. War, Edward Abbey. War, Mary Oliver. War, Housewives of NYC. War, Project Runway. I alternate between sublime literature, the ridiculousness of reality TV, and the looming presence of War.

Those who are left behind, strive to maintain an even keel as we swim through the waters of War. Some are hurt more than others. And yet, I'd like to think the bond is strong enough to keep us afloat, as we search for the things that make us whole.
Words to take to heart:

Wild Geese

by Mary Oliver
You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting--
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Taking a step back: "Remember The Third Herd"

From Stephen Pointer: "I made this as part of a fundraiser for 26 Soldiers from 2/503rd Inf., 173rd Airborne Brigade Combat Team who were wounded in Afghanistan.

These Soldiers wanted to get back to their home stations in time to welcome their comrades home, and to honor the fallen. 43 members of their unit were KIA during this deployment, and all are included in this video." 173rd ABN, 2007-2008, Korengal Valley

Thank you.



The fundraiser has continued for those men wounded in the 173rd. Recuperated, and given a doctor's okay, they wish to greet and join their brothers when the 173rd returns to Vincenza. All monies raised go toward air fare to cover those wounded and recuperated enough to fly. To see the blanket throws being sold, please go to 173rd, 2-503 Sky Soldiers fundraiser site.

Monday, June 28, 2010

Men Aren't Hard Wired For Bath Mats (Family Life)

Terry Newberry left message that I sound like a "gunny" as I was talking to his brother Jerry about Restrepo on the VFW Radio Show The National Defense. And BabaTim has said if he ever writes a book, he wants me on the PR Team. He called me Restrepo's "Pit Bull."
Even pit bulls can be nice...
Hmmm..... and so it's with a touch of irony, that I tell you daughter and I readying for our summer TCS at The Hubs' "GeoBachelor Pad" across the country. We've arranged the house sitters (this house is going to be bustling!), the dog walker --all details are covered. So yesterday, I shared the news with my Facebook friends, but also explained that he had gotten upset over modest upgrades during our visit last year.

"Mom, it's such a man cave," she said the morning after we had arrived. It really wasn't bad. But there were a few things missing.
We waited until he went to work (as not to bother him during his busy and important work day) to go to WalMart. While we were there, we bought a few essentials. They included a microwave, frypan, and a few other items.

Perhaps it was the coffee and side table we purchased. The new place mats made him twitch --I tried not to notice as he surveyed the spoils.
Sebastian and Tim: Not hard wired for bathmats
Now, let me take the reader aside. Last week, Tim Hetherington, one of the filmmakers of Restrepo, told me that he felt young men were hard wired for wars, conflicts, etc. etc.
I tell you, women are hard wired for bath mats.
Because The Hubs still doesn't get why a towel doesn't suffice.
I cannot abide a towel on the floor. Savages.

Last week, The Hubs realizes we are coming to his "Geo-Bachelorpad" for forty days. We might as well be on Noah's Ark. I'm sure he's already thinking about more forays to WalMart. Or maybe he dreads the cable upgrade that will bring in Project Runway. NASCAR might be minimized in favor of Heidi and Tim.
"Forty days? Have you thought this through?" he asks, over the phone.
I'm packing my pedicure kit now.
I think our arrival might be a more difficult initial transition than going Downrange.
If we make it through, I'm giving him a challenge coin.

Saturday, June 26, 2010

On VFW's The National Defense Radio, Talking About Restrepo

First off --If RESTREPO is showing at a theater near you, go see it. We need numbers, and the theater owners are looking for mainly that. When they see that people want to pay to see a war documentary (albeit, a great one), they'll book it. So, check the Facebook page for a list of theaters.

I had a great time as a guest on The National Defense Radio Show talking about Restrepo. Jerry Newberry, along with Randy Miller have one of the best shows on all things military. Just click here, and then scroll down to 06/26/10. They've cut the segment into two parts. We had a lot of fun. We talked about brotherhood, how Restrepo nails the experience of the bonds of war.

Jerry is a former paratrooper (101st ABN), who has worked as a newspaper reporter, embedded journalist, and is now the National Communications Director for the VFW. My favorite JN quote:
"I love your blog, and I'm a guy. I'm all man, lots of testosterone here. If I had admitted to anyone in the old neighborhood that I read a blog called The Kitchen Dispatch..."
Check. I'll keep a few barbells in the kitchen, Jerry. But forget the bottle opener for your beer. I trust your teeth are tough enough.

The duo hit heavy topic matter without making the listener feel like they've been whapped by a billy club. It's fun listening, and be sure to follow them every Thursday. You can subscribe to their show via iTunes or just pick it up at The National Defense. The show is nationally syndicated and also on the Armed Forces Network.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Restrepo Opens Today in NYC and Los Angeles

Captain Dan Kearney in one of the many shuras that took place in the Korengal

New York, NY Angelika Film Center
*The June 25, 7:45pm showing will be followed by Q&A with SGT Brendan O'Byrne
Los Angeles, CA The Landmark
*The June 25, 7:30pm showing will be followed by Q&A with Director Tim Hetherington

Documentaries like Restrepo are really made on a wing and a prayer. I'm guessing there could have been any number of dangerous situations that would have made it so this film never came to fruition. At several times during the movie, you'll see the danger they were in during their embeds in the Korengal.

In Sebastian's book, he has what he calls "the zen of not fucking up." In other words, every move mattered, a lost pair of night googles, making the wrong move at the wrong time --could reap disastrous consequences not only for him, but for the entire platoon. So I asked Tim, the photographer, about all the gear he had to take along. Keeping track, making sure things weren't dropped down the side of one of the narrow mountain trails.

Tim said that when he packed he had to strip everything down. He only took one hand held video camera. If it broke, he would have nothing else. So there was not only the zen of not fucking up to stay alive (and also ensure that nothing he did would negatively impact the lives of others), but also the challenge of not dropping the camera during heavy combat.

Anyway, it's here. Opening day. Almost four years of hard work will now be shown to the public. Opening today in the major markets of NY and L.A., Q&A's will follow both of the screenings tonight. SGT Brendan O'Byrne, who is featured in the movie, will be in NYC and Tim here in L.A.

In other markets, we're still in sneak preview mode. And so the parties continue. In Chicago, the Blackfive Military Blog, along with IAVA, Southwest Airlines, Lockheed Martin, HealthNet and The Soldier's Project will host a screening there. It's already full, but the good news is that the film opens to general audiences on 2 JULY at AMC Piper's Alley. Sebastian Junger will be there to answer questions following. Leta Carruth, aka Tankerbabe, will be on hand as well.

I love seeing the milbloggers in on these screenings. Sebastian will be in good hands. He'll be with family.

Don't forget. Check out our Facebook page to find more theaters. And don't forget to blog, twitter or facebook the movie so that it gets booked by more theaters. In addition, remember those little questions I asked Tim? His answers are all on http://box.net/restrepo. Just look for the folder marked "Tim Interview."

Press day 3: Brotherhood, and Bringing "Restrepo" To Your Town

First off, I have news of my own. I'll be on VFW's The National Defense with hosts Jerry Newberry and Randy Miller. We'll talk about this blog, Restrepo, and talking about how people can get the movie to their town. Today, 1:25 PM, CST.

Yesterday was the final press day in Los Angeles. From here, Sebastian takes off for D.C. and Chicago. Tim heads to screenings in Dallas and Fort Hood. Yesterday was another long day of back-to-back interviews. Phone ins from around the country, including former L.A. Times reporter Patt Morrison on KPCC .

What makes Tim and Sebastian such a pleasurable interview is that they're very articulate guys. They don't speak in sound bites, rather, their answers to questions are complete and thoughtful.

The two have a grasp of understanding that doesn't necessarily match up with the stereotypes held by many. Tim and Sebastian put to rest the assumption the reason a soldier goes in for the fight is that they're adrenaline junkies. It's not. In fact, what the two articulate so well, is it's the brotherhood, the bond with their fellow men, which shapes their experience profoundly. Inclusion in a group, one life depending upon another. The role is defined, the relationships and the necessity of them is clear cut. There's no wondering about whether they count, or are in.
Brotherhood is what they miss the most once they leave the service.

Here's Sebastian articulating the thought quite well, in an early experience at The Commonwealth Club in San Fransisco:


Their day of interviews ended with taping for a segment on the Rachel Maddow show.
What's up next?
Tomorrow is the big day. Restrepo opens in theaters in NYC and Los Angeles. From there, it begins a roll out throughout the nation. Check out the Restrepo Facebook page for a listing of theaters. If you want to know how to get Restrepo to your hometown, look no further. I've written the "how-to" over on Facebook.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Day 2: Press Day in Los Angeles for "Restrepo"

Tim and Sebastian with the photographer. Click to bigify.

Day 2. Yesterday kicked off Press day in L.A. It's for the bloggers, movie reviewers, magazine reporters to come and talk to Sebastian and Tim about the movie Restrepo. One of the PR staff offers advice to Sebastian and Tim: be prepared to answer questions about General McChrystal. They say, sure, we handle it.

Later, as the three of us are working at different desks, I look over to Tim and Sebastian and give them my perspective as an army wife.

No matter who is directing, our men and women will still be serving. They'll be on the FOB's, the COPS. They'll still get up every morning, strap on the gear, patrol, and try their best to make inroads with the Afghan population. They will fight, be injured, and sadly some will die. Some will live under very difficult conditions. The leadership may change, but the presence of the soldiers, Marines, airmen, and sailors in Afghanistan remains steady and dedicated.

They both nod. My point of view works in with one of the themes of the movie Restrepo. Things happen at the very top levels, but those in the fight have no say over whether it's going to be McChrystal or Mattis or someone else. In a sense, it's immaterial. Will it change some things? Well, yes. But then I have to go into military strategy, and I leave that stuff to my good friend Tim Lynch of Free Range International .

Back to the Press Day shaboo.
Very little is TV anymore. Everything is online. The background of artfully draped red fabric with a movie poster propped on an easel is a scenario not unfamiliar to viewers. Stepping over cables in the tight space, ones tries not to bang into the camera. Sitting across is Tim patiently waiting to get started.

The staff at Nat Geo has given me the job of asking Tim questions to be edited for broadcast. In people terms, this means I'll ask the questions, but the camera is on Tim. You won't see or necessarily hear me, which meant I could wear whatever I wanted. I think I did a decent job, helped along by my good friend Marc Danziger, aka "Armed liberal." We crafted them while sitting around Marc's dining room table after reading Sebastian Junger's WAR, and by watching online videos about Tim --not only on this project but others. As Jerry Newberry of The National Defense *would say, "He's no cherry." Tim and Sebastian have covered wars from Kosovo, Sierra Leone and Liberia. Tim lived in West Africa for eight years, four focused on Liberia. He and a colleague spent a year and a half living behind rebel lines. In other words, between this and the Korengal Valley ....war is part of him.

So I'll share the most moving bit with you.
In the military, we have a huge network of support to access during the time our loved ones are deployed. How did his loved ones cope lacking the usual means of support?

Tim blinked. He hadn't thought of this before, in fact, no one had asked.
Like so many of our loved ones, Tim is no different. He never really revealed too much about his work. It wasn't until recently when his parents saw his work on Liberia, coupled with his recent work on Restrepo, that the danger was driven home. The last time his Dad phoned, there was something different in his voice. As he told Tim to be safe, he knew it meant something a great deal more.

I sighed. Of course. A lot of our own spouses, sons and daughters say very little about what they've seen to their loved ones, too. I'll even bet that his parents don't sleep well when he's embedded, and they might even cry at random points through the day.

We finished. The interview had been going so well, 20 minutes slipped and we could have kept going. But there were more reporters waiting behind the closed doors. Anyway, I still had Sebastian's challenge coin in my pocket. I went to shake his hand, and as we stretched out to reach one another, the coin slipped out, landing softly on the ground. We laughed. "Maybe I should just throw this at you," I joked. Success came the second time around. It reads "Writer Sebastian Junger, Warrior & Friend."

Their emotional embedding with the 2/503 is what makes Restrepo such a special piece of work. In a refreshing change of pace, they note that it's impossible to maintain a "journalistic distance" when the lives being reporting on are also charged with keeping them alive. After all, getting emotionally involved was the intent of the filmmakers. Sebastian and Tim are part of our large military family now. And so are their families who love them most. We do take care of our own.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Day 1: Restrepo PR machine comes alive in L.A.

Restrepo is a finely crafted documentary, with moments of loudness and chaos followed by reflection. Last night, in a theater of around 300 in Los Angeles, an audience of film buffs, military supporters, veterans, and even some from the anti-war crowd gathered to watch Tim Hetherington and Sebastian Junger's documentary about the 2/503 Battle Company, 173rd ABN.

Working on the PR team, we were anxious to see how it would be received. The past month had passed quickly as we prepared for not only this evening, but for all others to follow, including the opening dates. The reason to get the word out is for the soldiers --not just these ones, but for all the men and women who serve around the world.

This is a small film, and the making of it was fully funded by Tim and Sebastian so they could have total editorial control. They put everything into it including taking on debt. Tim said he lives in a simple apartment with a bed, chairs, a table and not much else. So while they had won the highest accolade at Sundance, they didn't have much leverage to take it beyond the Film Festival circuit. Fortunately, National Geographic Entertainment took a bold move in April.

In the business end of filmmaking --distribution is everything. Now, thanks to Nat Geo, there are sneak previews, press days, interviews, and opening dates. Because of corporations who believe: Lockheed Martin, HealthNet and Southwest Airlines --there is a small budget for the filmmakers to travel and talk to the audience. Thanks to OCPA-West, The USMC Motion Picture and Television Liaison Unit, and to AAFES, the movie will be able to be booked on camps and forts in the USA (but only if soldiers demand it). Groups like IAVA, The Soldier's Project, Soldier's Angels, the NY State Museum, and blogs like Tankerbabe, Blackfive and Bouhammer --and countless others who have written about it, help fill the screenings, get the buzz going, and encourage people to see it.

It takes a lot of people to push a film. This is just the beginning. Films like Restrepo are made with an unflagging belief that what they are doing may not be commercially typical, but it's important. No movie star, no one falling in love. It may be a small film, but it packs a wallop.

Starting 2 July, the film will make its way across the country, booked into theaters by demand ...and into the "hearts and minds" of the American public.

Phone calls and emails have been sent, so many interviews, press days schedule. Outreach has been made to military support groups, active duty and veterans. Each day has felt like a month. This was the first of three screenings to be held this week here in L.A. The PR campaign follow up with this weekend in Chicago, Ft. Hood, and D.C. Then to Boston, Albany, Ft. Benning and Ft. Campbell. This is a critical time.

And so, back to L.A. We had a quick dinner last night prior to the screening. We weren't sure who would come. A war documentary definitely has a target audience. It is not a date movie, and no one falls in love. We hoped they would make good on their RSVPs and come. We walked over to the theater, lugging a sign, postcards, and sat down at a table. Waiting. But not for long.

They came. Wearing caps identifying them by war --Vietnam, Gulf war, Korea; by pins, 1st Cav, 3rd Infantry; and by organization, Operation Gratitude, the USO, Blue Star Mothers. Dr. Judith Broder, a hero of mine, who started The Soldier's Project arrived with her husband. I finally met Barbara Winkler from Quilts of Valor. It was good to put a name to a face. She and her husband and four other quilters drove from the valley and Long Beach. The So Cal quilters have made over 900 quilts to give to veterans and active duty who are touched by war. They wanted to see what the men who they make these quilts go through --though really, I think they already knew. One interesting side note: Barbara brought 46 quilts to hand off to her fellow quilter to take to the V.A. in nearby West L.A. A supporter's work is never done.

Debora George from Wire-A-Cake introduced herself. Debora's company does an amazing thing. They bake cakes that fit so snugly into tins, that they arrive intact to combat zones.

The OCPA-West (Public Affairs) team from the US Army. Chief (and West Point Grad) Ken Hawes, and his team were there. SFC Anthony Cotton, who is a more than capable PR person will be retiring in 17 months. Where is he going? "I'm staying right here." The studio who hires him will be very, very lucky indeed.

I have to call the next group, hero-parents. There were parents of soldiers who came as well. I couldn't help but think that sitting through this movie while their beloveds were deployed had to have been really tough. Armed Liberal, aka Marc Danziger, whose son Big Guy is in Arghandab, and Susan Mallet-Rodgers was there. Susan is the Blue to Gold Liaison with the Blue Star Mothers of America, Inc. 2LT James Pahng, just out of West Point came with his father. Though no doubt, his father is very proud of his son, sitting through the movie and having the natural thought of his own son in war, could not have been easy. I can already see his sleepless nights starting.

The movie played, the images of the young men, their words, and actions unfurled on the screen. It is a movie that holds viewers rapt, and almost everyone stayed in their seats. There was no shuffling out to get more popcorn, no jujubees. For 94 minutes the audience was transfixed. They laughed at all the right moments, cried, and when it was over they were ready with questions and comments.

The best comment of the evening was from the man who stood up and said that now when he sees Afghanistan on the news, his mind will come back to this movie and see these men. He added that anyone anti-war and did not support the troops was wrong. Others echoed similar thoughts.

There is always one person who wants the movie to be something more. One gentleman had problem with the word insurgents. "These people are on their land, fighting for their land, and we are occupying it," he said. Those of us sitting behind him noticed a large button on the back of his cap which said 'End the occupation now bring our troops home.'

Quite frankly, even I knew he was wrong. There have always been outside forces in Afghanistan, from the time of Alexander, Gehnghis Khan, the Brits, and Russians and even the Taliban. Tim pointed out that many of the fighters are from other countries --Pakistan, Yemen --"Insurgents is absolutely the correct word." he replied. As for what he and Junger were trying to achieve, he told the audience that this country is terribly divided by politics. They simply wanted to show a film about what combat was like for one group of men. It's not about generals talking about strategy, or Colonels telling about how they implement it, Restrepo is about the soldiers who serve below them who have little say about the day to day fight they are in. By putting aside politics, we can share their experience --and hopefully start the discussion.

Many in the audience agreed. In fact, put six quilters around a quilt, seven cookie or cake bakers in a kitchen together, box packers, singers for the USO, and you will find individuals who look beyond politics and work wholeheartedly to support the troops. In a sense, Hetherington and Junger have done the same.

At the end of the evening, I went onstage and presented Tim with a challenge coin for excellence. I like to give them to people who do good things for the men and women who serve. It reads: "Tim Hetherington, Photographer, Warrior & Friend."

Monday, June 21, 2010

War: The Lumbering Guest On My Sofa

It's summer, the yard --green, the flowers in bloom. It's not so hot the sun has killed everything yet, nor have Santa Ana winds delivered the additional punch to parch and usher in fires. No, this is early summer --a happy time to be outside. The agapanthus are blooming. The purple puffs of color bouncing in the slight breeze. The draping boughs of the large Chinese elm frame the view of the hill abroad as if it were a sentimental portrait of a time gone by.

The kids... they're not kids anymore. One is a teen, the other an adult. They're our loves, our delights, our concern and sometimes our annoyance. The other day they renamed our cat "Phil." I don't think he looks like a Phil, and so I cringe each time they say it. I think it's unfair to rename a cat, however, the feline creature never asked for the name Panda, either.

War is still a daily thought. An unsettling thought to most. War is like a large, lumbering, unwanted family member, who comes to take a permanent seat on our sofa. War doesn't say much, and so most times we can ignore him. We have a lot of time to study War, however, we spend more time doing other things. However, when I do pause to stare at the wheezing, shifting, luminous presence of War, I take in the trinkets falling from his pockets: loss, despair, victory, and love. Grief, exhilaration, sorrow, bravery, and fear. Pride, sadness, acceptance, death, and irony. Brilliance, stupidity, vulnerability, wisdom, and yes --even gratitude.

I remain grateful for all that we have, that we can keep going on, that so many of our sisters and brothers can too. We are, after all, strongest when we stay in this together.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Father's Day

Well, everyone has a daddy....

Happy Father's Day to All!
(photo from Hoax-Slayer)

Saturday, June 19, 2010

The Chaplain Picks Up The Letters, Part II

Fr. Z with the letters in Afghanistan

Yesterday, I wrote about the Boys and Girls Teen Center doing more good works by writing letters to soldiers in Afghanistan who never get any mail. Wielding pens, they wrote 20 cards --which to them was a novel experience since it involved neither a keyboard or cell phone!

The update is that the staff at the Boys and Girls Club has picked up the email and circulated it around. The next good news comes from Fast Surgeon blogger himself, writing from Afghanistan:
"Father Z just got back and is taking the letters to the soldiers that need them the most. He goes out to the smaller COPs that receive very little in the way of communication or any other niceties... I think the soldiers will really like these letters. Father Z will report back on how the letters were received. Thank all the kids. The soldiers really truly love seeing these
things. They hang them up on the walls of tents and such."
The Teen Centers, part Boys & Girls Clubs of America have a solid history of providing leadership opportunities, inspiring participants to get good grades, and carry out community projects like this.
-Donate to your local club so they can keep carrying out projects like this.

If you're a Milsupporter, you might consider
-taking this example to clubs and groups in your area and asking them to do the same thing.

Friday, June 18, 2010

The Teenagers Write Letters

This is a SHOUT out to the teenagers at the Teen Center, part of the Boys & Girls Club. Last month, I asked counselors Melissa and Chad if the teenagers would take a bit of time and write notes to soldiers deployed to Afghanistan who never get any mail. I didn't know if they'd really do it --in a day of texting and Twittering, it probably never dawns on them they can print, let alone write a letter.

But Melissa and Chad --who qualify for a reward for guiding these teens so consistently, thought it was a great idea. So we went to the store to pick up some blank cards with envelopes. Then we gave them to Chad. As usual, he has a plan.

Everyday, there's study hour. Almost everyone has homework, but because there are always some who come in empty handed. So Chad had a little surprise. They had to write letters to the soldiers.

And they did. They wrote over twenty, which to a teen must seem like a bizarre practice. Sort of like asking them to go back to caveman days and carve in stone. Or like texting but on paper and much slower. But, Chad says they really enjoyed it and wrote nice things. He claims they even included some photos of the club. The teens put the B&G address on the return --maybe one will write back.

We sent them to Dr. Joe of the Fast Surgeon Blog. He wrote they received them, and he's giving them to the Chaplain. Everyone really appreciates the teenagers' efforts, and no doubt will brighten someone's day.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

What a good organization provides

For the past few weeks, I've been cobbling together a list of small military support groups in selected cities. What was supposed to be a list of 10, has grown to a list of over 45 small groups usually overlooked by most. The internet has done something funny: a group can have a super slick site, look huge, but it exists not in one geographic location, but many.

But one thing for sure, the best sites have a few things in common, and I thought I'd share them with you.

1. A clear mission statement.
They avoid sentiment, over reaching statements, or diatribes. They get down to the nitty gritty of what they do, and they sum it up in a well crafted sentence.

2. Programs.
They have programs descriptions that are well written --meaning concise. The programs are well organized, and there is usually a focus of around 4 things they do really well.

3. Contacts.
They have their contacts listed by department or job. They not only have emails, but a phone number and mailing address too. They know that media relations is usually a top draw, so they don't hesitate to put that first.

4. Updated events.
The good ones update their events. Quite frankly, if you don't have any upcoming events, I'd have to say ...take the event tab down once your project is over. People can still look at numbers 1-3, and photos of the past event can go under the appropriate tab.

5. Someone who answers their email within a reasonable amount of time.

The death knell for any organization is a lack of any of the above. Chief annoyance: no email, no phone number, no names. Any one of the three is annoying, all three is simply a slow march into oblivion.

Other things not good: The "communications fill in box." Everyone knows that this message has a better chance being shipped to some general mail box, the majority of which is spam. Most irksome is the military support group that has the box of oblivion, along with no email addresses, phone number or mailing address. Quite frankly, I gave up on them. No invitations to Restrepo have, or will be issued. Their public Facebook doesn't even have an email address. All I can surmise is that the members are either scared, or they're not clear on any one focus. In the end, it's they who lose out every time.

Monday, June 14, 2010

The Winner of the RANGER UP T-shirt Giveaway is...


Jihad Gene (who for some reason is missing part of his masthead now!)

In a way, Jihad Gene is a fit with Ranger Up!
Gene, I'm calling Whitney at Ranger Up. I'll email you with instructions.

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Afghanistan: Sleek, Modern and Ahead in the 1950's.

It's the Afghanistan that most people probably don't realize existed.

This is a great pictorial of life in Afghanistan in the 1950's. In Foreign Policy, Mohammad Qayoumi shares pictures he found in a book about the homeland he knew growing up in Afghanistan in the 1950's. He writes:
"A half-century ago, Afghan women pursued careers in medicine; men and women mingled casually at movie theaters and university campuses in Kabul; factories in the suburbs churned out textiles and other goods. There was a tradition of law and order, and a government capable of undertaking large national infrastructure projects, like building hydropower stations and roads, albeit with outside help. Ordinary people had a sense of hope, a belief that education could open opportunities for all, a conviction that a bright future lay ahead. All that has been destroyed by three decades of war, but it was real."
Worth going through.
h/t Amy Sun

Friday, June 11, 2010

What Keeps Soldiers Going Back

Author Sebastian Junger of the book WAR, offers keen insight into the emotional reasons of what keeps those we love going back into combat. I think it's fair to extrapolate that it's these things that keep us as milbloggers, troops supporters and veterans together too. Those guys you see on Veterans Day clustered together --that's not joke. They're tight. Read former USAF LTC Chris Coppola's review.

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Roger Staubach has good manners


I was raised during a time when people gave up their seats on the bus for someone elderly, or for a mother with bunches of kids. So you can imagine how pissed off I get when I see people being inconsiderate in so many small ways these days.

It pleases me to no end to read that Roger Staubach recently did the same thing --twice on a flight to Colorado for soldiers who were amputees.
Read it here, cheer him on: A Gentleman To The Core.

(Reminder, if you haven't entered the Ranger UP giveaway yet, then see the post below. It'll be up until Sunday.)

Monday, June 7, 2010

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Friday, June 4, 2010

Rethinking Yoga: Sadie Nardini Takes On The Bullshit

As much as I enjoy yoga, I realize that at times the current popular yoga culture can be awash in a sea of judgment based on politics.

Teacher Sadie Nardini wrote one of the most important articles about yoga last year, as it pertains to the inclusion of veterans into classes. Unfortunately, many of us who have military ties have found it not unusual to encounter a wall of silence when people find out about our lives. The choice by an instructor to invoke politics into a 90 minute yoga practice ruins the experience for everyone.

Nardini takes on prejudices by exposing the thoughts of a few yogis who refuse to teach veterans yoga. While this is an excerpt, you can read in the entire article how she battles back with a deeper understanding of the true philosophy than those teachers who would shutter their doors to veterans.

"In my view, anyone who wants to try yoga, and seek a path of self-knowledge and harmony for any reason, should be welcomed onto the mat. As teachers, we have a responsibility to teach, not to judge, period. If I had to agree with everyone's views who came to my classes, my studio would be near-empty. -Sadie Nardini"
I'm sure Nardini took as much flack as she did praise in writing the article. I'm grateful she wrote it.

Daniel Alan Baker
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Thursday, June 3, 2010

Film Review: "Restrepo"

Sgt Brendan O'Byrne and PFC Juan Restrepo in the documentary, "Restrepo."

The movie ended, but I couldn't move. Sebastian Junger and Tim Hetherington had just taken the mantle from Ken Burns as documentary makers extraordinaire with Restrepo. This war documentary is a gripping chronicle of the lives of a platoon through some of the heaviest fighting in the Korengal Valley, Afghanistan.

"You can't tame the beast," shouts the late PFC Juan Restrepo, the late Army medic for the 2/503 Battle Company, 173rd Airborne. He says this with the bravado one would expect of a twenty year old, early on in the filming. It's the beast within, which binds this platoon as they set to deploy to place described by CPT Dan Kearney as "where the road ends and the Taliban begins."

The viewer is taken, just as the soldiers were, to a steep, rugged, practically inaccessible mountainous valley. What they find themselves in is gun battles --some days as many as seven, almost daily. Seventy percent of all bombs were dropped in the Korengal. The viewer is there through small arms fire, RPG's, an IED, death, shuras, encounters with locals, and when the guys blow off steam. The filmmakers pull off the amazing --by focusing purely on the men and not cutting in with interviews with higher ups not on location, they present war without the politics or ideology which most assuredly divides. This is war. The dirt, heat, snow, daily battles, boredom, fear, tragedy in all its rawness, which makes it ring true.

It is also seamless film making. Until one of the soldiers yells to the camera "get down" during a gun battle, one all has forgotten that either Junger or Hetherington were filming. But the two stuck with it. They were there when the platoon built and moved into the new COP and when one soldier wasn't sure naming it after their fallen soldier PFC Restrepo really fit the honor he deserved. The filmmakers were there during Operation Rock Avalanche where the platoon was ambushed and one of their most beloved leaders was killed. Lastly, they were there at the very end of the deployment, when the same soldier decided that yes, the COP had taken shape as a place where their friend Restrepo had been well honored. However, make no mistake, nothing --from the soldiers to the war, is glorified.

It saddens me greatly that there are many who believe any mention of soldiers beyond the stereotypical unthinking, amoral killing machine mold, assumes counter depictions are an attempt at glorification. The smart ones eventually question their presumptions and see the bigger picture. We who write milblogs are not only concerned with accuracy and truth, but showing the breadth of a soldier's humanity. We think a lot about how to present the experience between the goalposts of hooah-hooah and victim.

This is what Restrepo does so very well. Hetherington and Junger aren't afraid of the human condition through tough and dangerous times, through this the viewer witnesses the weaving of bonds between men who are very different from one another. This bond, strengthened by a commitment to survival is everlasting and sacred. It's something outsiders have a difficult time understanding, but Restrepo conveys it with love and honor.

Junger's book "WAR" fits nicely with "Restrepo" to fill out a good picture of the struggles of combat. Used in tandem, these will be of great use by the armed forces to learn about the challenges soldiers face.

Restrepo opens in theaters 25 June in NY and L.A., with a roll out to other cities shortly after. Go to the Restrepo Facebook page, and don't be afraid to tell them where you'd like to see it play.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Andrew Lubin's Response to "Should We Be in Afghanistan?"

A few weeks ago, Sebastian Junger wrote a reasoned and well-seasoned response as a guest blogger for Powells.com to the question, "Should we be in Afghanistan?" The question comes up during his appearances at book signings, as it will at screenings of the documentary film Restrepo that he and Tim Hetherington made. It was cross posted on Junger's own website, where several people (including myself) also wrote answers. I answered the question last week, citing the steady but fragile progressive steps made.

Combat reporter Andrew Lubin has taken on the question as well. Here he covers the reasons and also the tactics.

There are 2 questions here:
  • 1- Should be in Afghanistan?
  • 2 - Are we using the correct tactics for success?
And so as I sit here waiting to board a plane for my 5th embed into Afghanistan, let me answer.

1 - Yes, we need to be in A'stan.
It's not that we're nation-building (altho we are); it's keeping those 15% anti-west, anti-US Taliban-AQI-whomever from using A'stan as a base from where to attack us again - as proven 2 weeks ago in NYCV, and with the Christmas Day bomber, they will.

These folks don't like us, want to kill us, and need to be stopped, And if it's 1st Marine Div who does the stopping - so much the better.

2 - Tactics: But we're doing it wrong.
McChrystal and the entrenched Army bureaucracy is running a war that ignores the realities on the ground - this is a country with an annual income of approximately $ 2.00 / day; we need to bring basic job programs that get folks working. Working Afghans who can feed their families are happy Afghans not taking money from the Taliban to shoot their own people and our troops.

By bringing small-scale jobs: canal cleaning, welding, micro-loans, you put them back to work TOMORROW - then they take ownership of the area, and police it themselves (like the Sunnis did in Ramadi and Anbar with the Marines, long before General Petraeus's 'surge' left US shores).

But McC is pushing the Karzai party line, and allying himself - and us - with an incredibly unpopular leader.

Better he should do what the Marines are doing in Helmand; clear out the bad guys, bring in jobs and basic stability, help the local government stand up and become effective...and then if Karzai's boys turn up, fine; if not, we've still secured an area and brought that patch of ground back to stability.

These folks have been at war-civil war since 1974. Democracy? Taliban? They just want to live better tomorrow than they are today. And we can do it - but not by trying to remake a country with a literacy rate of approx 20 % into a mini-US. Like one of my Marine Colonel friends said at a conference a few months back, "Counterinsurgency is easy - you've got to make them want to choose us."